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Parents need a TIMEOUT!
Thread Created On 9/29/2010 3:38:00 PM

What a shame.


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Posted 9/29/2010 3:39:00 PM

http://news.mydaily.com/2010/09/29/friday-night-fights/?icid=main%7Cmain%7Cdl7%7Csec1_lnk3%7C174084


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Posted 9/29/2010 4:28:00 PM

I saw that on CNN and they said the peewee teams were thrown out of the playoffs because of the adults. Sad. I coached Tball, Tball for gods sake, and you wouldn't believe how pi$$ed some parents got because they don't keep score. Well, a couple of the parents started keeping score and were being a$$e$ to the team we played so the last inning I jumped in at catcher and let every kid from the other team score. Playing around chasing them having a good time. Everyone was laughing but that same couple of parents. If'n I'd not been as big and a little tougher I think one guy in particular might have thrown down. Had other parents that their kids not listen to the coaches, one in particular told his kid to ignore the coaches and swing this big upper cut of a swing to pop the ball up just out of the infield. That's fine in Tball because they really can't catch except by accident and a pop up in the infield is often a homerun but when those kids get to little league they’ve got a horrible swing to correct. And the kid doing it wasn’t ever going to be a power hitter. Still nothing beat the bitter vile of ruining their gloating because they didn’t know for sure their kids had won. A lot of great things about Colfax but some of the parents are shall we say a little over competitive.




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Posted 9/29/2010 4:56:00 PM

It truly is sad how some parents live vicariously through their kids. Friggin' Pee Wee football for God's sake.

CP...having coached youth sports for a looooonnnnggggg time I've got some dandy one's I could share but since most of the transgressors are still living it would be bad form to do so.

P.S. We've got a couple BSportsters who get overly rambuncious at their kid's games...kind of funny actually. Maybe I'll video them this year and share...



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Posted 9/29/2010 5:50:00 PM

One of my funniest t-ball memories was at a Toledo tournament about 9 years ago. 

This little guy got a good hit, was running a straight beeline for first base, then about 15 feet from the bag veered off to the right and at full speed jumped into his moms lap just as excited as all get out.

I swear itt took 10 minutes for everybody to compose themselves enough to get on with the game.

It was priceless.

I still chuckle when I think about it.



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Posted 9/29/2010 6:02:00 PM

PB coaching Tball was one of the funnest things I've done and certainly the most entertaining. It would almost be worth having another kid to do it again. Notice the 'almost' and by almost I'm talking almost with the precision of nuclear warheads....

2B just don't mention names and those who you're talking about will think for sure you're talking about someone else. Heck they'll remember when so and so parent did it, but that so and so parent was such an a-hole.




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Posted 9/29/2010 6:08:00 PM


Here is a great article that was in the local paper today I thought you all might enjoy reading.


These modern athletes could use old-school coaching

By Nick Menegas for the Lewiston MorningTribune


I've seen it happen often. And it makes me puke.

"It" is coaches being asked to resign (i.e., if they don't they will be fired anyway) because they allegedly can't coach today's "modern athlete."
 

Many athletic directors give media releases as to why they fired someone, and they usually go something like this: "We appreciate everything coach did for our program, however, a change needs to be made. We must move in a positive direction with someone who can relate more effectively to today's modern athlete."
 

Now don't get me wrong, there are plenty of coaches who need to be canned for obvious reasons. But not relating to the modern athlete? This is an attribute parents and players should be grateful for, not hostile about.
 

More than ever kids need old-school discipline, not a coach that they can text message. Successful coaches are firm, consistent, disciplined and demand respect. They may not win a popularity contest or even a state championship, but they will teach life lessons that reach far beyond high school graduation day. They are more concerned about teaching values than chatting it up with their players about the latest MTV awards ceremony.
 

It's a fact: Varsity athletes don't get equal playing time. And they shouldn't. Good coaches who want to win won't play an athlete based on what their parents' status is in the community. If a good coach is fired because parents have a beef about their child's playing time, then it really isn't about "not relating to today's athlete." That's just a cop-out.
 

I hear this all the time: "My child is not being recruited by colleges! My child should be a starter! They aren't getting enough recognition, not being treated fairly or respectfully!"
 

Blah, blah, blah. Instead of holding their child accountable, parents complain to friends, co-workers, school-board members and administrators. Eventually the disgruntled, vocal minority put enough pressure on to tighten the noose. They demand a lynching. Then, the silent majority show up and share story after story supporting the coach, but it is too late. Decision made. Procedures legally followed. Coach is fired. Someone new is chosen. In many instances he or she is replaced with a less-experienced community member who is not a teacher. Disgruntled assistant coaches resign. Staffing becomes a very difficult task, more community members become assistants. Seldom is this a good scene.
 

Message to all coaches: Be passionate about your profession, don't submit to changing your style to fit today's "modern athlete," be yourself. Message to all parents, players and administrators: Support and embrace this person, and your children will be the winners.

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Menegas won two state championships as the football coach at Lewiston High from 1986-98. His column runs weekly in the Tribune. He may be contacted at thecoach@lmtribune.com.




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Posted 9/29/2010 6:22:00 PM

Good article, I missed it in the paper. For parents the team is all about their kid, they don't really care about the sport or the team as witnessed by their attendance at games before and after their kids graduate. But the great lessen teams sports are suppose to teach is about becoming part of something more than yourself, that as far as the sport is concerned the team is more important that its parts, the team isn't about you.




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Posted 9/29/2010 6:49:00 PM

lol cp - I noticed the word almost.

Oh well, we will get to do it all over again when the grandkids start coming along.






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Posted 9/29/2010 7:52:00 PM

Outstanding article. How do you think the "modern athlete" got their attitude, from their modern parents! Some of these modern parents need to be smacked back into reality.


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Posted 9/29/2010 9:47:00 PM

well said by all.


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Posted 9/30/2010 6:01:00 AM

"Oh well, we will get to do it all over again when the grandkids start coming along."

Yeah, and then I won't have to be embarrassed when I yell and scream because technically it won't be my kid!



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Posted 9/30/2010 7:49:00 AM

I can see it now,,,80 yr old men storming the field..hitting each other with canes and walkers.


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Posted 9/30/2010 6:01:00 PM

We can wear sunglasses and sit in a different section then the kids 2B.
 
Then pretend we have alzheimers afterwards and deny everything.







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Posted 9/30/2010 7:07:00 PM

Yeah, and we can watch each others stuff while we trade turns heading to the bathroom...



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Posted 9/30/2010 7:30:00 PM

I just hope I have some stiff, er, stuff, left by then.


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Posted 10/1/2010 6:51:00 AM

Not sure I want to sit with you now...


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